25 years mlc,That post was great.Yes W said I was always critisizing her and I hurt her.She didnt want to live with the pain anymore.I was in depression so ireally didnt pay enough attention to her I was just trying to make it through one day at atime!About the 180s Im already being treated for the deppression,something i never would have done before,When me and W talk,i would get agrivated before,we havent fought one time since this started.Im trying to change everything i dont like about myself,and its going good sofar.Only real problem is when I do get a chance to talk to W,I get real nervous because i dont want to do anything stupid.I have thought about the test part,I think she did that the first 3 weeks after this happened,I failed,I was still pursuing ect.Thats when everything went downhill fast.W went to the lawyer right after that and moved in w OM After that she started getting real distant,cold ect.Also my childrn have not seen us fight at all.They try to be supportive of me they know im still trying to pull my family back together,and your right thats the way to teach them a good lesson.Thanks again very much 25


Me:42 W:41 Married 22 seperated12-31-07,served papers 2-29-08 S21-S20 partialy disabled S17
Divorce sighed 10-7-08 final 90 days after