I truly am sorry if you thought that I was attacking or being harsh, that was not my intent. I was just trying to say that there is a whole package, and that has to be looked at. Looks for me have never been a issue, my H is not gorgeous, it was what kind of man he was that attracted me, and I am starting to see that man again. Maybe that expectations are to high, or to soon. There is so much pressure that you are both feeling. And I think that you will find people here have a different slant on things, because we have lived it and been through it and now realize how things truly work. We all just try and help each other here, and sometime we think a 2x4 is needed, but it is never done with malice or out of bitterness. Mom, I hope that you do continue to come back, and work on what is important
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
