I am not looking for excitement or the "i want you now feelings" all the time. HFF - This is why i stopped posting and reading here, it infuriates me that you all think that is all that i want. I know that those lusty feelings go away and a mature relationship develops - i get it. But being sexually attracted to someone IS important no matter how long you are married and not matter how mature the relationship is.
Okay, that didn't go so well. What I do want to point out is that Mo2C is still with me, still in the R and still trying to work on things. She is trying, but there is still something missing for her. I may have misspoken when I said "I WANT YOU NOW". That may have been exaggerated. It is the attraction in general and this is what I have a hard time coming to grips with. (as does W). So again, we can talk well. We can share emotions and feelings. When we are intimate, I can please her and she can please me. But how do we get her to want to do that without me needing to initiate? There is something missing and we don't know how to get that back.
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IT has nothing ot do with whther my H is good looking - he is VERY good looking by the way - I am trying to do the right thing and yet i get chastised from peop[le who don't know me and don't truly know the situation.
What I don't like to see is people here being judgemental, especially in this forum. We are here in piecing and it is a team effort. I could understand harsh words from some of the other forums, but here I am looking for advice and support.
