This may be a stupid question, but have you asked for her suggestions if she doesn't like your schedule?
To simply ask for suggestions or what she doesn't like...not this month. Kind of aggravating, she asked about schedule last Thursday and I told her my thoughts of this schedule. She said I meant Sunday. And so she was just 'testing the waters' to see if I would give her Easter I think. So, she knew in advance I was going to do it this way. I also told her when I gave her the schedule it was tentative to tell me what doesn't work for you. She said we will talk later. I've offered to swap and mentioned specific things that happened in her life last month. Trying to be understanding again...her only two comments yesterday were 1) 4 day rotation was fine with her. 2) Wanted to be able to attend/do "these" special things with 5D. 4 day isn't going to work that's just her old plan. She choose that plan to begin with because she couldn't be away from 5D longer than that. I had no input. Special things with 5D is just well I am clueless. She said it like she missed something. I'd like to know what because I missed it to. Boat left me on the dock...I really don't know what she is talking about. Unless, maybe this is more of facing her decision.
More I revise this I notice, schedule topic comes up by her, I say something, and at some point she will say we will talk about this later...what's up with that??? Could be anything. Just bring up anything then say we can talk about it later...
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she should back down once the arguments go stale.
we are not arguing...about anything...she just brings this up not ever saying why...she is always friendly now...just sometimes tired/quiet but never that anger I heard months ago.
Thanks again for help...no calls yet about it...as expected...I really don't see the point.
