Recognize that you are exposing yourself to these situations and to W for your own reasons. She is not obligated to act any particular way toward you. If you don't like the way she acts, stop putting yourself in those situations, or accept it as a smelly consequence of YOUR choices.
You only get to be bitter if you are a victim. You are an adult who is capable of making his own choices and who freely chooses to interact with someone he finds unpleasant. You are NOT a victim. So, stop yer whinin' and own the consequences of your freely chosen actions. If they are too smelly for you, stop being angry at the sh*t for stinking when you step in it. Walk around instead and give it wide berth.
