First of all what did you say on the VM?

I answer when H calls but don't make it a point of contacting him. After while I assume NC becomes a habit. I hope so!!

I'm trying the elastic band trick. Put one around your wrist and when you feel like calling H give the band a snap. I find now all I have to do is look at the band and I don't call. Pavlov's dog anyone?

Jen

Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road