WAW...now the LBS Part 2

[HOPEFULinCALI]

DB coach said after that conversation that I need to do this schedule thing. She said she doesn't like it b/c she doesn't have complete control...maybe. She has brought it up three separate times and has yet to tell me what she does not like about it.

I agree with your coach. She doesn't have control in a sitch in which she seems to want complete control. I also think it is an excuse for her to find something to be angry about. As long as WAS's have something to be angry at the LBS for it helps them to rationalize their decisions including the D. I think that it is evident in the fact that she keeps bringing it up, but doesn't have anything to say about it.

Whatever the reasons, I need some regularity to my life and I am just not going to be a doormat on this one...I am not going to rollover on this issue...I am sure of it. I can concede/swap days but just to say we need to talk about it and not say anything...makes no sense. I actually believe she will not call tonight as she said she would about it. We will see.

You have every right to want regularity. You should not be a doormat. She will have to respect you standing your ground and you can't bend over backwards all the time. It is however, a good idea that you are willing to concede/swap days. This may be a stupid question, but have you asked for her suggestions if she doesn't like your schedule? She has nothing to complain about then. As long as you are trying to keep things positive, and I know you are, she should back down once the arguments go stale.