I think you should get him accounting paper and have him draw up a budget! I'm so evil.

You've already mentioned that he needs to call you and ask to do things with you. There are probably other things that go into that category of more effort in the R.

What is your LL? What do you most feel you are missing out on now?

Have you thought more about the moving in together thing? If you were to do so, when would it happen? When his lease is up or possibly before?

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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