Well I'm 17 months into it and yes it does get easier. BUT that's only if you address your issues, the things you did wrong, the faults you have that contributed. So start working on yourself, it won't be easy but in the end you'll be a heck of a lot better off no matter how this all turns out.
First thing to recognize is our mouths get us into trouble. So ask yourself "how will this help us reach our ultimate goal." Then act or speak. Initially you'll be surprised how often you'll change what you say or do because you'll figure out you are letting emotions control you and not you controlling your emotions.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa