Well, I guess first off I need to decide what I need from him and this marriage. I need to decide what he would have to do to prove to me that he is working on it and putting forth effort.
He keeps saying once he gets his finances under control then maybe he can think about other things....so I will let him do that. He has asked that of me so I can let him do that...I am not an unreasonable person .
After that if things are like they are now then I will have a talk with him letting him know what I need and asking him what he needs. ...I will have a few weeks to think about it.
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