Baby steps in the right direction (thread 3)

[MichelleLT]

You said it in your own words earlier - he's cake eating. Getting the benefits of being M but not having a lot of the responsibilities.

Once his finances settle, it may be time to shake things up. Do you have any ideas about how you would want to do that?

You've thrown a few things out there about the finances and how you want him to make more effort on the R. What would be specific goals from that? What strategy do you think would be the most successful in achieving the small goals? What would be baby steps that would indicate success?