I guess that could be part of it.

Originally Posted By: oldtimer
It will continue as long as you accept it.

That was posted on NikB's thread just a little while ago...and it seemed to really hit home with me. As long as I am accepting H's ambivalence and the arrangement we have right now....it will continue.

It could be that we are at a point in our R that I need to tell him what I need in order to work on this. The way things are now are making ME indifferent and I don't want to be that way.


Kris