End of Piecing?

[Mom of 2 Cherubs]

I am not looking for excitement or the "i want you now feelings" all the time. HFF - This is why i stopped posting and reading here, it infuriates me that you all think that is all that i want. I know that those lusty feelings go away and a mature relationship develops - i get it. But being sexually attracted to someone IS important no matter how long you are married and not matter how mature the relationship is.

IT has nothing ot do with whther my H is good looking - he is VERY good looking by the way - I am trying to do the right thing and yet i get chastised from peop[le who don't know me and don't truly know the situation.

I'm sorry HFF but the only reason i came back on to hs site today is becasue i knew you would have posted about reading my diary and would not have brought it up to me in person. At least not right away.

You guys are harsh, i don't need to get a thicker skin, i need to keep my private life private nad not worry what a bunch of strangers (to me anyway) think about me as a person. I know I made bad choices and I am now making a choice to keep my sanity by not worrying what you all have to say about me. You don't know me, you don't truly know HFF either.

why is it the "REAL" people i talk to seem to understand or at least try to see my side a bit yet those of you who don't know me don't understand or even TRY to understand.