For some reason, this schedule junk feels negative, but I think I am doing the best I can.
Does she fight you on the schedule? Is that why you see it as negative? If she does I am sorry to say you may have to concede where you can. Don't be a doormat, that's not attractive, but take the wind out of her sails. Does it suck, absolutely. Why do they get all the power? I wish I knew. Being out of control is a foriegn feeling to me, but like I said in the post above I think in my own sitch it is God trying to humble me.
Hang in there!!!
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