Funny, my H is the irrepsonsible one with money...and he thinks I am the control freak...maybe in some ways I was a little...I have let a lot of stuff go. Anyway, it is good that your H has done well with the finances. I take care of myself financially...and it has been a little scary since I bought a brand new house and had to put in a yard, outdoor lighting, fencing, a pool, window coverings and furniture...not to mention the mortgage!...yikes.
So, focus on us...yep! I have lots to keep me busy and it sounds like you do too. I just wish there was a way to erase them from our minds even if only temporarily!
