Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Thanks for the note Sara. We do seem pretty close in our sitch's. There is no way I would leave the bed. She's the one that doesn't want to sleep in it, it's sofa city for her.

I tried to hold her hand back in Oct when we were in Fla and it was like I had the plague. No physical contact since. I've squeezed her shoulder a few times on the way to bed, but nothing more.

I'm with you, I would kill for a little contact. I was at a sports bar the other night and the barmaid brushed my hand while grabbing my credit card and it about sent me through the roof!

I think I may be in a little better place than your sitch as I'm sure WW's OM ripped on her when he found out about about WW's STD. Given I had seen TM's between them multiple times that he treated her bad and then either called her or email her letting her have it for not telling him about her STD, it probably soured her on him pretty quick. There had to be a comparison between how I handled it when she told me about it and how he handled it. Score one for the good guy there.

Now I'm just letting her deal with her demons and slowly (hopefully) come to see I'm not the anti-christ she has made me out to be so she can feel ok with what she's done. it's a slow process, but I've got time.

I wouldn't worry about your husband saving money to move right now. Waywards think all kinds of stupid stuff while still under the influence of the affair. Let withdrawal work it's magic and their thinking will become more clear as time goes by.