Are the "I want you now" feelings really going to happen all the time, at this stage of the game? Because if that is what is needed in a marriage then mine should really be over. Sure I get the urge, and want to have sex with my H, but I don't need have that young rip my clothes of sex, time to time we still have it, but I want the lets plan it for tonight, and take our time, gentle, loving kind of sex. I don't look at my H now and get all hot and bothered everytime, and I don't expect too. Sure I can't deny that sometimes it would be nice to have that our 20,s sex, were we couldn't get enough of each other, but really now with work, kids, parents...who really has the time or inclination! I think that what we can have now can be so much better! The "passion" settles into something more stable. My passion comes from the trying my H is doing for the most part now, showing me that he is stepping up and make it better. I don't want us to have what he had with the ow, because what we have is better, because its real and true on so many levels.
I hope that I am not making anyone mad, or rambling
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
