Well, there's no telling what time and life kicking her in the ass will do. But you can't hang out waiting to find out or you will just get old and bitter.
I think this is what I've shared with you a couple times Frank. I know that you know this. I also know that it's very hard to finally accept that you've reached a point where you have to admit that you are powerless to stop this.
You are getting there, if our conversations are any indication. I think this "righteous" anger that you've moved into is a sign that you are seeing clearly now. But spit is right - you still want her to acknowledge that SHE is the one who has given up. You have to find a way to stop letting that be your primary focus.
She's not going to "realize" anything until she has a chance to "live" her dream.
Momma always said be careful what you wish for.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
