No, I guess that is a big problem. I think that I believe if she could 'see' what was really wrong, that she would realize that her reasons for leaving were wrong and she'd want to give us another chance. That's my big mistake. She's done and nothing will change that.
Well, there's no telling what time and life kicking her in the ass will do. But you can't hang out waiting to find out or you will just get old and bitter.
Take care of yourself, Frank.
Live for yourself and your daughters.
You are still trying to force her to see and feel what only LIFE EXPERIENCE is able to make a person see and feel.