Baby steps in the right direction (thread 3)

[MichelleLT]

Congrats on getting back to working out. It'll be worth it in the long run even though it hurts at first. (Least that's what I tell myself lol)

I misunderstood. I thought the apt had to do with the phone bill, didn't realize he had previous credit problems. While I am definitely with you on protecting your credit history, is there a way you could start getting your name off stuff? Or possibly refuse to co-sign for future things? I kinda suspect he'll never really learn to balance a checkbook until it really bites him in the a$$, but wouldn't want you to be hurt in the process. He's probably always had someone who bailed him out at the low points - family, friends, you, whomever. It's probably a very good thing you are the opposite with money lol. Which totally doesn't help you out at the moment.

While it is good to be detached, I can see how indifference is different and worrying. Hopefully someone in piecing can help you out more. Since I'm still a bit in crisis mode trying to even get to a point where my H will want to be in a M at all, I haven't had a lot of time to experience those emotions.