4. Yeah, we all know and get that she wasn't there for you. That she didn't help you when you needed it most, that she kicked you when you were down, etc, etc, etc.AND THAT TRULY SUCKS, FRANK. You seem to REALLY ,REALLY want her to be held accountable for that transgression. You seem to hold on to that so tightly that it keeps you from moving forward. It almost seems like if you could get some small indication from her that she understands the wrong that she did to you, that MAYBE, you might be able to release that and stop focusing on it and thus become functioning and productive and healthy again. SHE'S NOT IN THE PLACE TO MAKE THAT HAPPEN RIGHT NOW, IF EVER. ARE YOU GOING TO LET THAT CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU PARALYZED?
No, I guess that is a big problem. I think that I believe if she could 'see' what was really wrong, that she would realize that her reasons for leaving were wrong and she'd want to give us another chance. That's my big mistake. She's done and nothing will change that.
Nothing. It's over. It's done. I'm on my own now and regardless, I still have to deal with the finances without any meaningful help from her.
