I guess that is one way to look at it. ...but his spending habits actually have gotten him in serious financial trouble at other points in his life. That is why I had to cosign on the apt. and my name is on the car. He was really bad before we got married. Even when he was single and in the AF, he was making really good money and had trouble making ends meet. That is just the way he is...he has no idea how to handle finances.
I am worried he will be in the same boat again...making ok money...but still no idea how to manage it so that his bills get paid. I would say it isn't my problem, but since my name is on some of his debt it...it kind of is my problem.
That is one area that we always clashed. I am the COMPLETE opposite of him regarding money.
Actually I did start working out again this week and it is kicking my butt!
I think I am becoming a little desensitized to everything regarding our R. I don't think that is a good thing because I kind of feel like I am becoming indifferent...which is actually strange for me to write or even admit. I am not sure how to get that WANT back.....maybe those are the same feelings my H was/is dealing with.
