I can tell you that the best thing that I did to deal with my sitch has been to stop neglecting my relationship with God. I get my strength to stand for my M from him. I have discovered that if I want to stand I have to first hit my knees.
I have committed to stand for our M for as long as it takes. I didn't get married for just a few years. I love my W and always will no matter what the circumstances are. Right now she is in the WAW fog. I know that she is not herself. I have been positive, as helpful as possible, I also give her plenty of space. In the meantime I do a lot of praying and have found that the best self help book is the bible.
I believe that I will reap the benefits of prayer and patience. I have faith that we will eventually have a restored marriage and family. I hope that you also have trust in God's promise to resurrect your M.
I have to tell you that I bought a new bible and when I opened it to where the company put the small ribbon book mark it was in Psalm 40. It was exactly what I needed. If you get the chance look it up. It helps me greatly.
Each and every day I lay my pain, hurt, anger, frustration and fear a the feet of Christ. When I pass it off to him I am able to get through to the next day. I pray that your H sees your heart for what it is and how strong and committed you are. He will then see that you are still the woman he wants in his life.
Keep up the good work...you are awesome!
-Bryan
Me-45 W-34 T-5 M-3 1/2 s-10 s-12 ILYBNILWY 12/26/07 Sleeping away from home at friend's house(because she says she can't get any sleep otherwise) 1/14/08 1/25/08 We tell kids she is moving out
