It is great that you are focusing on yourself. Try to become the lady that any guy would want.

Is your H willing to go to marriage counseling to work out any issues between the two of you?

You must be a pretty good puncher. I cant imagine my W hurting me at all with one of her punches. I would probably laugh and say something like Jake Lamotta would ("Is that all you got?"). A kick to the groin is a whole other matter.