ps: As for the sober stuff - I'm not sure that anyone in our household is an alchoholic. We, and especially he, are not exactly teetolers (however that's spelled), but I don't think there's any real abuse. A beer/normal night and 4-5/night going out around 3x a month on his part doesn't exactly consitute alchoholism...
36 y/o HD in committed monogomous relationship for 15 years (at least on my end, assumed on his as well) 2 children, 6.5 dd & 5 ds
