no expectations 6

[Nature Girl]

Hi peace!
I had a great time on my trip with the kids. I'm pretty proud of myself for going without H. It was so nice to have a break from him. Not that he does anything mean or nasty, but it was so much easier to stop my thinking about it all constantly. Another plus was that I got to meet Upside!!!

My H, for obvious reasons doesn't talk about his work too much. I wonder if OW is working on cases with him so he doesn't talk to me about them. He also used to tell me stories about his work friends (male) and we used to hang out with those friends families. We don't hang out with them at all anymore and H never talks about them to me anymore. So that makes me wonder if he just doesn't spend any of his "free" work time with them anymore because he is spending it with OW. Those two friends would not be supportive of this A.

So I think it is good that your H talks about his work with you. All my H and I talk about is kid related stuff.

I think it couldn't hurt to be busy on Friday. You can do it in a friendly way and then take note of what happens.

Good luck!