Another thing is she does not want me to know where she is and wont answer her phone when she is gone, but I had better let her know where I am, and what I am doing or I am automatically accused of being with the OW.
Just yesterday I had a job in a downtown location, suit and tie stuff, and my W wanted to know the location, hours, and what I was doing there.
While I was ther I took my mother in laws advice and called the OW to find out if she was intending on transfering out of our office, and if she wasn't to begin the process of transfering out myself. When I told my W about the phone call, as I promised her I would when there was any contact with the OW no matter how brief it is, she asked what was said and if she "came on to me?". Of course I told her the truth, and now the OW didn't come on to me.
I am telling my W the truth about everything that has and is occuring because that is what she wants and deserves after what I did to our marriage, plus I think this is a sign that she does still care about the M.
