Don't do it. Don't give him an opening, if he is stressing and you contact him, there is his release. Wait for him to contact you. Thats just my 2 cents. As you well know, even an innocent attempt at contact can sometimes turn into a huge amount of drama if H needs to blow off some emotional steam about the other areas of his life.

Its his party, let him wear his hat by himself. A good dose of reality is just what he needs. Have a thin mint and wait.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option