Yes, hers is in response to mine with the OW's ex fiance. Now that she is having her A she says our marriage is "Wrecked", but still denies having the affair.
Technically she is not leaving the kids alone, her elderly mother lives in our basement, but the kids sleeep on the third floor, and her moms room is at the opposite end of the house two floors down. Our son has terrible allergies and will awaken at night wanting meds, if she is not home the little guy will panick not knowing where his mom is.
As for the phone calls I know I need to create space and I do, but when she is sneaking out at night after I leave for work and not answering calls from anyone, including her mother, I believe she is being VERY irresponsible. I know she is angry at me and doing this as a way to get back at me because of what I did, but I wish she would think of the kids.
I do see a counselor, I have an appt. this afternoon. I am going to be honest with her about everything that is occuring in the marriage and keep working towards repairing the damage we are both creating.
