Just a thought, but the difference between being spontaneous and irresponsible is perspective - whether or not other people feel you have the money to spend. Obviously, ATM, he doesn't, but at other points in his life it didn't get him into serious financial trouble.
I have my fingers and toes crossed for you to sell the house soon. It would be so nice to have that burden off you.
I'm glad you got out and had fun last night. It's so nice to take a break and relax. And so necessary. Gonna start working out again this week too?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2