Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Ok, DMB, you win that one.

A, not that I know of but I'm assuming Enabler friend gave WW her divorce attnys number cause WW told me 7 weeks ago she's consulted a lawyer and had told me back in Oct how wonderfully the enablers attny had handled her situation.

B, No reason for this. WW could use work email to contact OM without my knowing.

C, Don't think this one is necessary either because WW could use work phone to contact OM if she wanted. Enabler and WW work together.

D, No need here, see B & C above.

E, BINGO. You win the prize on that one.

F, Again, no reason here. When OM lived in our area he lived by himself as his wife lives 1000 miles away.


And answer E is what I'm struggling with right now. How can a 47 yr old mother of 2 take martial advise from a 20 something, divorcing, immature piece of work?

I guess there's nothing I can really do about the enabler. And she only knows what WW tells her, so if enabler really knew me things might be different. If I tell enabler to get out of my marriage it will make WW think I'm even more controlling. But if I don't say anything, enabler sets us back everytime they spend any amount of time together (last night for example). I don't think enabler will make a difference whether WW and I make it in the end, but I guarantee she will affect the timing.

Just really stinks.