Tree, I haven't read through your whole sitch, but what are you doing for yourself? What GAL activities have you been doing? I think you should include your children in those. Have you looked at C for your kids?
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
