Karen, I have a severe vertigo problem... and I live in a 6th floor appartment *8O I have been much better in cars of late, at its worst I was even having panic attacks just being a passenger...

BeingMe, yes, the moving various times did push an already damaged marriage off the cliff, ZW -> ZA -> UK -> NL, we moved a bit... And when we moved here we moved with a newborn (4 weeks old!), no friends and, for my wife, a language that she could barely understand and not speak. En ja, ek verstaan wat jy bedoel met vasbyt, meer nu dat ek in Nederland woon. *8)

And the bomb for the day, W finally admitted to me that she has found someone else and that it has gotten serious enough that she thinks it is going to be long term -> permanent relationship. I already knew she had been dating (she didn't say anything about that) and that she had been seeing someone for a while, she just didn't want to say anything until it became a relationship. Doesn't soften the blow much though, will take me a few hours to recover from this I think.

Head spinning, time to go home... *sigh*

Me: 35
W: 34
S8 & S5
M: 11
IDLY: 08/2007

"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" - Janis Joplin, Me and Bobby McGee

"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain!"