Well, I think H's family is leaving today. Typical H... He got home from work last night at 9:30 and almost immediately left to go workout. He made a Dr. Appt. for 10:00 this morning and then has to be to work at noon. So, he spent almost zero of the last few hours his family was here...with his family. I made the mistake last night of questioning why he would leave to go workout when his family was here.....all still up, all still wide awake. H just snapped at me. I thought maybe, just maybe H would help a little last night getting D3 and our niece to bed. Nope. Should have known better.

My SIL & BIL are still at the Mayo Clinic, but will be back up today. So, I took my FIL, D3 and niece to Chuckie Cheese last night. I DID. I love them, but let's remember that this is H's family. His niece is a sweet girl, but all she has to do is whine one time to my FIL and she gets her way. Poor D3 didn't understand why she couldn't stay up or get what our niece got. How do you explain to a 3 yr old that her cousin is spoiled and that's not how life is.

My parents are coming in today. D3 will offically be D4 on Saturday, so they're coming for her b-day. H wants D3 to go back home with them so he can get 100% caught up with his daycare expenses. Yes, after going out of town for a concert, going to one here, giving his brother $110 for a ticket for a concert they're going to in May....etc (I can go on).....he says he can't afford daycare and needs ANOTHER 2 week break to catch up. My parents are thrilled and want to take her with them, but mommy, not so happy. I just feel so tied to H when it comes to finances. We have our own accounts, but if he can't afford things for her then I'll have to take care of it....and I can't really afford it on my own.

So, I don't always read horoscopes, but I saw this one today.

Your horoscope - Today, March 27, 2008
A close friend or romantic partner is likely to be in a very angry mood today, Sue. In fact, it might be best for your relationship if you stay out of this person's way. Whatever he's feeling probably has little if anything to do with you. Stay out of his way and let him vent at somebody else. Find something interesting to do on your own and touch base with him when he's in a better mood.


Well, time to get busy. Have a good day everyone!


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day