I think we are done Mink. I asked her for some checks to pay bills from our joint account and she went ballistic. Sayaing that is why I am Ding you. Calling me names and everything. All I asked for was some checks. I am really concerned for this is really starting to effect the kids.
Tree, I haven't read through your whole sitch, but what are you doing for yourself? What GAL activities have you been doing? I think you should include your children in those. Have you looked at C for your kids?
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
GALing: Just got back from Colorado 2 weeks ago. Spend a lot of time with my kids with Soccer, skiing and Lax. Played golf and love to go down to Montclair for Dinner with friends. I am thinking about taking flight training lessons. I must admit that I need to enjoy the GALing a little more. I spend to much thinking about the W. I am really working on Detaching.
My kids need the C. I need to look into that. They have had some but not enough. Thanks CW68. I always enjoy your thoughts.
I have to make myself understand that this MLC WAW is not my problem and there is nothing I can do about it. The children are my only concern. Right now she is just my roommate and I am ignoring her antics.
We must have a good attitude for the kids need one adult parent.
We must stick with your chosen course and be strong. Never falter.
We are great people that are going through a very tough time.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
