H was here this morning when I came home from my morning class. I hadn't seem him since Tuesday. I went about doing what I needed to do like make the bed and wash dishes from last night. I didn't speak to him much and he worked on the computer. [He was here because all our company documents are on the PC however he asked me to make a backup of those documents and he took it with him when he left.] I told him about what I read about Antartica (40km of ice broke off) which he commented about the same thing happening an the Artic too. I told him there will be lots of icebergs in Newfoundland this Summer. No comment [I'm going there to visit family in May). I asked him if he had a chance to check my CV. He said yes and he'll bounce it back to me. I asked him if he would translate it into Spanish and he said yes. I'd do that myself if I could because I really don't feel like asking him for many favours.
Pretty boring really. I made it a point not to talk to him and he didn't seem too interested in talking either. I guess now I'll see him less because he took the file backup with him when he left. He's doing great with the NC so I'm going to make sure I don't contact him first.
Oh and while he was here I told him that neither his Mom not Sister called or texted me last Sunday to say happy birthday. He didn't know and I didn't bother to tell him that I didn't think it was nice on their part since I've known them for 10 years. No sense fighting about things neither of us can control. It just wasn't very thoughtful. In Spanish they say "mal hecho" which means poorly done. Just goes to show in my mind that they don't want him to stay married to me.
Have any of you had your S stay with their family while seperated? Do you think the family tries to influence the S? Somehow I feel that his Mom and Sister would like it if I wasn't married to him.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
