Beloved was really ugly to BND...but my H told me he felt numb towards me too...maybe he still does...who knows?
They do that so that they wont feel the guilt...don't have to acknowledge the hurt they have caused. He wants you to suffer as he has suffered. It doesn't make sense but there it is...
BND's H came back and he is very loving with BND and the kids, etc...you never know with these guys...
It doesn't matter what you say to them...they are going to twist it in a way that is acceptable to them.
