stella, thank you so much for the encouaging words! I sure hope he will come to his senses soon. I really miss him but I know he won't be the same if he comes back. I hope I have the opportunity to at least try to make it work.

That is terrible about your H forgetting his D17!! I'm sure it is much harder on you to have to deal with her & the emotions & all that she is going through. My cousin went through similar things with her H, the OW's D was getting more than his own daughter & finally she saw it & does not want to see or hear from him anymore. That is sad too. She got a lot of counseling for her & that seemed to help.

I hope that she does well on her IB exams. I will pray for both of you.