I don't think you are giving up. It is your wife who is giving up and she will definitely NOT reap the harvest of her ways. Yo are standing for your family. There is honor in that. You are stating your boundaries, and if your wife can not or will not live within your boundaries, so be it.

I don't read that bible verse thinking of whether or not I'm giving up on my marriage. I read it more as how I am when it comes to living my life. Even the bible sanctions divorce where one of the parties has committed adultery. No one will judge you for that if that is what it comes to.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.