Tia, All my children know about MLC. D17 has done her own research and agrees with the 'diagnosis'!
TPA, I'm sorry your kids are going through similar things to mine. I don't know how to make it better. What I do know is that pointing it out to your H will only make it worse or he will twist it to make it look like your fault. Now I just hug my kids and tell them that I understand thier pain and that i am here for them. I do encourage them to take their grievances up with their dad but I no longer do it for them.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15