4kids...thanks for your supportive comments.....and that you are still here. Bookpusher....agreed...my road certainly was a convoluted and bizarre one. The most shocking thing...besides the indiscretions...was how much she lied and also HOW WELL she did it. OMG...as a reminder...one night..she came home a half hour late and she told me that she went to pay a bill at a store which WAS CLOSED. When I asked her about it...she started to rummage thru her handbag to look for a nonexistent receipt.

Otherwise, things are quiet here emotionally in the house. My W is now MEGA MOM since receiving the complaint and I am being pushed out or 'excluded' from doing simple things with the kids. I can't get to bathe my kids now, which, was our time to laugh and kid around. She is going to places like the Stature of Liberty with them....books are being bought...things that should have been done in the past.

Sadly, she is ALSO not telling me updates about the kids that SHOULD be shared as parents (like planning to take our son to the doc..more to come).

I stay upbeat...most of the emotional pain is gone. I try and focus on rebuilding my practice, and, of course, I give every free moment to my kids when I can.

Thanks for all your support.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;