Update to my sitch, the end has come

[mako_man]

Ya, i just dont get it because my our MC has said the same thing repeatedly. Then in the next breath explains ways "I" need to change in order to affect a change in my W. Its like this, if thats true then my W will forever be a serial cheater, addict, abuser, mentally ill manipulator till her dying days. Why do some people (including my MC) insist that I should be more patient and "hang in there" for her? If I had a crystal ball that saw 5 years into the future, and in it I saw that my W was the SAME person she is today I would start RUNNING.