Thanks for your thoughts. Sorry that your D's are struggling with this, too. My D14 used to talk about the sitch and her feelings a lot, but now she kind of has the attitude of "why should I talk about it, he doesn't care about us, it doesn't change anything." But she does express anger to him. I want so much for her to be able to have some type of relationship with H, but D14 has the emotional maturity of a...well, 14 year old!, and H has less emotional maturity than that. <sigh>
I did put in a call to the kids' C. Would like for the D14 to start going again but she refuses. But S9 needs to go, so will have to ask H to provide funds for that. Not looking forward to that convo.
I'm tired. Can't this be over already?
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(