Well I guess H must have had a momentary pang of guilt b/c when I got home last night he had TMd them all asking if they want to go to the cinema today! Not sure where he found the cash from but not really that interested. He got himself into the financial situation he will have to dig himself out of it.
D17 can't go to the cinema with them b/c she is working full time this week. As far as I know he hasn't suggested going once she comes home so again she will miss out. I feel so sad for her.
I inadvertantly and momentarily had to speak to H last night. D12 had been trying to phone him about the cinema trip and he finally called back. I try not to answer the phone these days but the kids clearly weren't going to. He just asked for D12 and I obliged. For once his voice sounded soft and like it used to be. That threw me and I wish in a way it hadn't b/c it sets off all the emotions again. But I am ok.
Must get ready for work otherwise I will never get there.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15