Thanks for your response, lwb! I read Divorce Busters about two months ago. It really helped me see that I needed to be intentional about giving my husband his space to deal with things on his own time(as maddening as that can be!) I'm excited about finding this online community because of the few people who know about my situation, only two have any personal experience with adultery, separation, etc. It's the kind of thing where people are really sorry it has happened, but they don't know what to say or have much advice.
