Thank you both. I see a lot of good coming from our conversation. There was so much love in his voice when our conversation ended on Monday. It was like my REAL H was back for a few minutes. He thanked me several times for talking with him and told me he felt so much better. Of course, yesterday when he picked up S18 for dinner, he acted as if I didn't exist. Didn't look my way or acknowledge me in any way. I didn't make myself available to him either.
S21 talked to him last night or today and said H acted happier and was not angry or uptight at all. S21 said he thinks H was doing much better and told him that he didn't talk to S18 about serious stuff because he wanted to enjoy their time together. S21 says he doesn't think H and OW will stay together at all and thinks it might end sooner than we think.
I so appreciate your input. I am leaving it to God and I am praying for H to repent his sins and be filled with the Holy Spirit. I have asked that God help us repair our R enough to do graduation for S18 as a family. Because no matter what we will always be a family.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
