Wow Joie you sound so much like me..I loved having my H sleep next to me even if we did nothing it just helped feeling him beside me. So that's why I hated it so much when he moved to the couch. I felt like I really lost him then. You sound so strong and your sitch sounds very similar to mine.I'm so glad things worked out for you.
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace