You missed something. It was important. You.. Need to lead.
You are the one posting and searching.
You got my vote.
You have to lead the way. You have to stand up, brush yourself off and lead the way. If you can pull that off with "No Emotion". She will follow you.
That does not mean tell her what to do. That does not mean control her. It means Lead. Be at the front of the line talking softly, listening closely, waiting for her to follow.
I will say it again. People will show you the way. You have done this before. Look back briefly and see what you would have done different. Don't dwell in it. The further you stay away from it (what you did before) the more of a leader you will be.
Lead on.
Did you see it that time?
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
