Quote: i'm unable to exercise in front of my husband because he laughed at me trying to do situps when we were 1st married...
I think we all have a story or two like that to tell. What we dont know, however, is just how others take things to heart sometimes. I learned a tiny bit about that today, regarding something in my sitch. It seemed like no big deal to me......but BOY was it for my gal ! I had bought my EXW a large painting several years ago and hung it over the fireplace. I loved it...and she left it here when she moved out because her mom had one just like it. Well.......18 months later my lady friend was here ( moved in with me in my home)...and asked to replace it with a Thomas Kinkaid painting of hers. I rejected that idea...because I liked it.....and for no other reason whatsoever. Today I took it down...because during an argument last week, she came out and told me that I left it up there because it once belonged to my EXW ! Geez ! I thought. That's NOT WHY !
So, all this time...( several months now) my LF had endured this pain and I never knew it. The damage was done...but she saw that I took it down without any more prompting from her...and it eased her pain a little. Now I wonder what ELSE I was insensitive about.
Just thought you might want to try and relate to that.
