without the open communication - I simply can't get an accurate reading on how WE are doing.
Yes my man. this is the secret. My W also will not let her phone far from her side. This will be something I will tackle later on. TRUST... She can look at my phone anytime.. I too am working on communication. BUT..... you seem to be taking on more of the "cause" of your W actions that seems fair. SHE could have told you what was bothering her also.
We will get through this buddy.. you watch my back and I'll watch yours
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know